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Fellowship & Socials
All are invited | All are welcome!
One of the many positive things St. Paul's is known for is its welcoming spirit. We want you to become connected with both ministry and people at St. Paul's; we want you to feel like St. Paul's is your church. We offer a number of Cathedral Circles that might fit an interest of yours. Check them out!
Coming together with new acquaintances or joining long-time friends for coffee, a good meal, thoughtful conversation or in prayer is what makes St. Paul's a special church home. In fact, there are plenty of opportunities throughout the year when time is set aside for parishioners and newcomers to get to know each other and share our communal paths as Christians. St. Paul's is a place where we strive to build meaningful connection with each other and build friendships that span the years. It is never "the wrong time" to get involved, so please let us know your interests so we can help get you connected!
Belonging at St. Paul's
There is a place for you here.
Whether you are newly arriving or have been part of St. Paul’s for years, there is always a next step into the life we share. Belonging at St. Paul’s is about connection—growing in faith, building relationships, and finding meaningful ways to participate in the life of the Cathedral.
You don’t have to wait for the “right time.” You can step in whenever you’re ready—we’re here to help you find your place. We offer a cycle of three classes, three times yearly to give you ways to connect and hear more. Join us and take a step! Ready to get connected or have a question?
Contact: Sarah-Emily Steinhardt, Member Engagement Coordinator or speak with a member of the clergy—we would be glad to walk with you.
FAQs
What are Cathedral Circles?
Cathedral Circles are lay-led interest groups that are meant to be smaller gatherings. The purpose of these groups is to create more intimate fellowship opportunities within the Cathedral community around a particular group enterprise. Sample ideas include bible study, brewery meet-ups, steak night, serving our neighbor homeless outreach, Friday fishing, rainbow collective, etc.
Are there group requirements?
- At least one lay leader whose contact info can be shared for communications.
- Must meet at least twice a year.
- Meeting times/days are coordinated by group members and leaders and must be communicated to Dean Churchwell to put on church communication outlets.
How can I start a Cathedral Circle?
Questions to consider: What interests you that other people might be interested in? Do you want to fill a need in the church community, the wider community? Do you want to fellowship around a special interest?
Email Ashley Ozan, Minister to Families & Children at aozan@stpaulsokc.org to discuss your idea.
**Circles are subject to approval by Cathedral Staff**
How do I join a Cathedral Circle?
Cathedral Circles & Socials Meeting Now!
- NEW! Beloved Cathedral Circle - LGBTQ+ Allies - This Cathedral Circle meets 4th Thursdays at 6:30 p.m. and is open to anyone who identifies as LGBTQ+, as well as supportive family members, friends, and allies seeking connection, fellowship, and community within the life of St. Paul’s. Youth are welcome with an accompanying adult. Contact Ashley Ozan for details!
- Brotherhood of St. Andrew - Men of all ages are invited to gather at 8:30 a.m. each 4th Saturday morning of the month for breakfast, fellowship, study, prayer, service, and conversation with the Brotherhood of St. Andrew. Come connect and learn more about this growing ministry of prayer, study, and service at St. Paul’s. Breakfast is potluck - check in with leader Brennan Thompson for details.
- Caregivers Group - Meets First Sundays at 12:30 p.m. in the Reception Area of Dean Willey Hall. Contact Caroline Dennis for additional information.
- OTR: Other Sacred Texts. This will be a meeting for people who meet God through music, poetry, TV, and film. We will have film, poetry, or listening gatherings, and an occasional meet-up at the movies or a local concert. Fr. Tim Sean Youmans or David Sapper have all the details!
- Cathedral Monestary of the Heart Book Club (in person) Meets Thursdays, September 10-December 10 from 1:15-2:45 p.m. in the Parlor. Reading: Monastery of the Heart by Joan Chittister. Group led by MaryAnn Sonntag - Contact MaryAnn for more information and details. Books can be purchased at the Cathedral Bookstore or your retailer of choice.
- NEW! Saint Circles Cathedral Circles: Saint Circles are small regional groups, each shepherded by a Vestry member, designed to strengthen relationships, deepen fellowship, and improve communication across our vibrant Cathedral community. Learn more and connect with your assigned Vestry Member HERE.
- Dinner Groups: Ongoing throughout the year. Contact Ashley Ozan to sign up, remain with a current group or to try a new group! All welcome.
- Women's Cathedral Circle (ECW) - Contact Heather Sessing - Don't miss the Digital Detox Retreat October 16-18, 2026 at St. Crispin's.
- ROMEO (Retired Old Men Eating Out) - 1pm first Wednesday, Ihop - 5201 N. Classen Blvd. Contact Dick Opalka
- Caffeinated Yappy Hour Social - Each Second Saturday 10-11:30 a.m. in the East Garden for people and their dogs to visit and play. Coffee provided! Contact Jess & Katie Chesnut for details.
- Crafting Cathedral Circle - Contact Betsy Banks
- Prayer Shawl Circle - The Prayer Shawl Ministry of St. Paul's meets twice monthly to make prayer shawls and baby blankets filled with prayer that will be blessed and delivered to those in need. Meets from 1-2 p.m. on the first and third Wednesdays each month in the Reception Area of the Education Building. Bring your own yarn and supplies, training is provided. This group is open to men or women of any age. Questions contact Deacon Tracy Anderson. While the group meets in person on the dates above, you can always knit or crochet at home or on your own time and contribute products that help our supply.